Do you like me?
If not, than congratulations! If I’m ever trying to sell you a used car for some reason, you will be more resistant to my persuasive trickery.
However, if the opposite were true, we’d be much more likely to strike a deal — even if you ended up getting the short end of the stick.
In this part of our series on Robert Cialdini’s Influence: the Psychology of Persuasion, you’re getting two lessons: how to evade subtle manipulation by friendly charlatans, yes, but also how you might add to your own likability.
Whether or not you see used car sales in your future, you don’t need to be selling something to want to be liked.
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Other things we mentioned in this episode:
- Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, by Robert Cialdini
- Robert Cialdini
- Weapons of Influence #1: Reciprocation (Ep. 186)
- Weapons of Influence #2: Commitment and Consistency (Ep. 189)
- Weapons of Influence #3: Social Proof (Ep. 193)
- Joe Girard
- A Master Class on Buying a Car – Part 1 (Ep. 69)
- A Master Class on Buying a Car – Part 2 (Ep. 70)
- The Science Behind First Impressions: How The Halo Effect Can Lend You Instant Credibility
- Thinking, Fast and Slow, by Daniel Kahneman
- Daniel Kahneman
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- 0:05:53 – How we are influenced by people and things we like
- 0:18:28 – Being associated with something
- 0:29:51 – Sponsor: Brilliant (Learning problem-solving skills)
- 0:31:59 – Physical attractiveness and the halo effect
- 0:40:26 – Similarities, compliments and how some exploit them
- 0:51:25 – Contact, familiarity and cooperation
- 1:00:56 – Recap and conclusion
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