It’s easier than ever before to feel like a failure. Anywhere you look, you can find scores of people half your age but twice as successful. What happened?
Is it just an illusion? Another effect of everyone showing only their best selves online? Well, yes, and no. There are still people doing amazing things much earlier than I could have imagined. So what gives?
And more importantly, can we do anything to catch up?
Never fear — obviously, I wouldn’t want this to be an episode if the answer was, ‘nah, you should probably give up now.’
This week, we’re taking a moment to talk about the various pieces of success. After that, it’s up to you to do whatever it takes to make mom proud.
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Other things we mentioned in this episode:
- Sara Dietschy on YouTube
- Learned Helplessness (Ep. 99)
- Learned Optimism, by Martin Seligman
- Collection of Short Works (inc. Harrison Bergeron), by Kurt Vonnegut
- Weapons of Influence #2: Commitment and Consistency (Ep. 189)
- Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, by Robert Cialdini
- Steve Carell on Wikipedia
- Breakthrough Advertising, by Eugene M. Schwartz
- 16 Personalities Test
- Derek Sivers on Wikipedia
- The Dip: How to Know When to Quit (Ep. 202)
- The Dip, by Seth Godin
- 5 Questions (Ep. 218)
- Music Theory 101, by Marc Schonbrun and Brian Boone
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- 0:02:24 – Success is often circumstantial and being more optimistic
- 0:28:26 – Try to be patient and keep striving for success
- 0:31:32 – Sponsor: Brilliant (Learning problem-solving skills)
- 0:34:07 – Being more selective with your ideas and sources of information
- 0:39:48 – Blaming the wrong things for your lack of success and being envious of others
- 0:51:38 – Giving up too early and not finishing your projects
- 0:56:38 – Defining what success means to you and putting effort into it
- 1:02:40 – Recap and conclusion
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