Have you ever noticed that as certain things become better or worse, your overall happiness doesn’t seem to change very much?
Well, you’re not alone. The hedonic treadmill, or hedonic adaptation, may be to blame.
It basically means that our expectations and desires in life respond in part to the circumstances in which we find ourselves. So if you make more and more money, your lifestyle will simply change to require and expect that money, and you won’t feel nearly as excited about it a year after your big raise.
On the other hand, if you completely fail an exam you may be devastated this week, but after a little while you’ll likely not even remember the exam without prompting (unless it was particularly traumatic).
So what can we do with this? Can we actually become happier, or is everything less useful than we had hoped?
I’m confident we can — it just means we’ll have to approach things a little differently than usual.
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- College Info Geek Merch
- College Info Geek Discord Server
- Hedonic treadmill on Wikipedia
- Record for Eating the Most Wisconsin Cheese Curds
- Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind, by Shunryu Suzuki
- Wait But Why’s Life is a Picture article
- Quartz’s Prescribing Play to Kids article
- Done (iOS)
- Habitica (iOS | Android)
- Principles: Life and Work, by Ray Dalio
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- 0:04:25 – Happiness, being grateful and living in the moment
- 0:23:34 – Replacing annoying activities with fulfilling ones
- 0:29:01 – Harmful habits that you may think are increasing your happiness
- 0:31:15 – Sponsor: Hover (Buying a domain name)
- 0:33:59 – Sponsor: Todoist (Managing your tasks)
- 0:36:05 – Valuing the limited time you have and using some of it to have fun
- 0:49:11 – Taking big breaks every once in a while
- 0:52:30 – Recap and conclusion
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