How to Be a Good Significant Other (Ep. 177)

If there’s one thing that the majority of humans can agree on, it’s that dating other humans is pretty cool.

In one of our more recent episodes, we touched a little on this topic, but after quite a few requests it became clear that for whatever reason, people wanted to hear more about what many consider one of the most important aspects of our lives. Weird.

With that in mind, Thomas and I decided to have a very candid episode about our relationship experiences, our romantic ideals, and a few of the mistakes we’ve made in our own relationships.

Please keep in mind that in this area and many others, we are neither right nor wrong. We can’t give any clever recipes for success here, and fancy guru-level life hacks like the Pomodoro Technique aren’t likely to improve your dating life (probably). But, if just a few of you can pull something out of our honest reflections and use it to improve your chances at happiness, it’d be a pretty good ending for any mistakes we might have made in getting to where we are today.

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Timestamps:

  • 0:01:59 – Tom and Martin’s relationship stories
  • 0:09:51 – Meeting people and finding a significant other
  • 0:15:36 – Improving yourself to become more attractive
  • 0:19:53 – Having a partner who motivates you to better yourself
  • 0:25:40 – Living as a unit, but without being completely dependent
  • 0:32:38 – Sponsor: Storyblocks (Graphic design assets)
  • 0:37:00 – Noticing and fixing relationship flaws and scheduling stuff
  • 0:41:40 – Keeping in touch with people
  • 0:48:37 – Not having the same drive or interests as your significant other
  • 0:56:11 – Offering emotional support instead of immediately finding a solution
  • 0:59:24 – Different relationship dynamics
  • 1:02:01 – The need for honest and frequent communication
  • 1:18:09 – Being consistently thoughtful to your partner
  • 1:21:31 – Conclusion

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Andrew

For me, respecting, supporting, trusting and being transparent to each other are the four foundation stones to a healthy and worthy relationship, no matter if they are a romantic one, a friendship, or your relationship with your family. If any of those doesn’t work, everything can fall apart very easily and very quickly. Things like having not exactly the same but close values and boundaries are important as well, but should be thought after these four aspects are working properly.

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